How To Be Brave

In every day, all people around the world are different. Some people like funny, some people like going with many people, some people like being alone, some people smart, clever, brave and other else don't .

Let's talk about one of my students who always not to be brave in the class. Every time I ask him to solve the problem , he always scare, can't solve it well. But, if he solves it on his seat, he can solve it correctly.

So, we can consider that no confidence makes people get in stuck with all problems even either small or big.
My article right now wants to help all of you get out of scaring , make you to be brave.
Here are 9 tips to be brave.

1. Make a decision to be brave -  What I mentioned in the previous bullets sounds simple.  Right?  Not necessarily.  Every person reacts different to diverse situations.  There is not a magic recipe to manage your fears easily.  However, the first step is to start by taking a decision.  You have to decide to be brave, courageous, audacious.  Decide that fear is not going to control you.  See it as an opportunity to grow.

2. Forget about other's thinking or saying - Just doing what you feel right and freedom. You don't need to prove someone else that you are like this or those. Don't change yourself cause of other people. Don't care too much about other people's speeches.

3. Accept your limitations - You are not a superman or superwoman or god who is always both strong and right. You are not going to be able to all thing correctly at the one time. So, It is okay if you decide not to do anything .

4. Work out those brain muscle - Remember that you are strength , good, goals and value. A deep knowledge of yourself will help you to confront stressful situation. Chances are they will kick in when you need them most. Remember that!

5. Count on others - You should repeat it in your mind that " It's fine to ask for help. Using somebody's help is sign of weakness. You don't have an idea how many times that mother or father help me. Open up and accept help.

6. Focus on the people or cause you’re standing up for - simpler to be brave in the interest of others than it is for the well-being of your own. Here is one of my preferred precedents: a kindred Princeton graduate named John Burford, who surged a brotherhood, was alarmed by its hazardous right of passage rehearses and composed a letter to the school paper depicting his encounters. It was an enormously fearless act. At the time, the majority of Burford's companions were individuals from the school Greek framework. Yet, he concentrated not on the hazard to his own social standing yet on the security of future understudies: "Eventually," he clarified, "what I didn't approve of was the likelihood of being recalled… as 'that person who realized what organizations at Princeton did, and could have spoken up, and after that someone kicked the bucket on account of his screwing weakness.
 

 7. Find courage in numbers - It’s much easier to act in the company of even one other person who feels the way you do. The hardest thing in the world is to dissent solo. Sometimes, you’ll have to go it alone, of course. But often, this isn’t necessary.

8. Learn to attend to positive signals and to discount negative ones - Many of us have a “negativity bias” that causes us to pay more attention to disapproval than to positive reinforcement. Be aware of this, and gently steer your mind to positive stimuli. When I first started my public speaking career, I tended to focus on whichever audience member had the most disgruntled expression on her face. These days, though I still hope to please everyone, I’m much more attuned to those who seem happy to be there.

9. Find role models of quietly courageous people -  When you’re trying to stretch yourself beyond your apparent limits, there’s a part of you that wonders whether it can actually be done. A role model is a constant reminder that the answer is yes. Channel that person until it feels natural to channel your very own self. And if you don’t have a role model handy, try Miep Gies, the quiet and ordinary woman who sheltered Anne Frank in her attic for two years. “I don’t want to be considered a hero,” said Gies.“Imagine [if] young people would grow up with the feeling that you have to be a hero to do your human duty. I am afraid nobody would ever help other people, because who is a hero? I was not. I was just an ordinary housewife and secretary.”